It happens to all of us at some point - we get on a good roll, with work, with fitness, with life - and then life happens.
We miss one workout, then another, and then before you know it, you haven’t worked out in weeks, or did any meal prep, and you feel like a sloth.
Sloths are pretty cute though, you have to admit….
When we start to feel like we’re behind on everything - then we start to get overwhelmed. And I don’t know about you, but when I’m overwhelmed, I’m also prone to anxiety and fits of existential despair, fearing that I’ll never amount to anything every and also I’m a horrible person.
It’s a completely logical place to to when you get off track, obviously.
Friday, I asked my therapist to hold me accountable to three workouts over the course of the next week. Yes, I asked my therapist to keep me accountable to my strength workouts. Here’s why:
My workouts are my domino - I know that when I get my workouts in, other habits fall into place.
If you are off track or have found yourself in a fitness funk, you don’t need all of the things, even if you have all of the feels.
Stop thinking of all of the things you need to or want to do, and find one.
What’s the one action that can take that will propel you forward with all of the other actions?
I have a list of things I’d like to do, and a bigger list of things I feel that I should do. The best way for me to get out from under the weight of those project lists is to focus on the one.
For me, it’s my workouts. When I get my workouts in, I feel better. When I feel better, I eat better. When I eat better and workout, I sleep better - and have better brain function and I'm a better coach, co-worker, and spouse.
For instance, I have many clients tell me that they know that if they go grocery shopping, that meal planning happens more easily. And when meal planning happens, meal prep happens. When meal prep happens, they feel in better balance and like they have more energy. When they have more energy, they workout.
And on and on it goes.
So what’s the one thing you need to do?
Perhaps you need to put your screens away and get into bed by 9:00, because you know that when you do that, you get more sleep and wake up feeling more rested. Maybe you need to hit your 10 minutes of meditation, or a morning walk with your dog or 30 minutes on that new Peleton in your basement.
The bottom line is that you don’t have to figure out everything. Not today, and not tomorrow.
You need to figure out the one thing. That one domino that will help all of the other ones fall into place.