I shared a post this morning from a friend’s facebook page that spoke about anxiety and depression.
It was an accurate, spot on description of the catch 22 that those afflictions present in my life.
In many of your lives as well.
For me, I don’t think it’s the fear of failure, though I have some of that. My fear is that I will waste my life constantly wanting to do more but with no urge to be productive.
That feeling tortures me.
It’s wanting to get out of the bottom of a well but not having the strength to grab the rope someone is offering. The teaser is that the rope is often right in front of your face and you stare at it, trying to will yourself to reach out and grab it.
Just reach out and take the rope, you think. It’s that simple.
It’s that difficult.
Then comes the self-judgement. Other people grab the rope. Other people never find themselves in the bottom of a dark and damp well. Other people seek light while I back away from it like a vampire in the desert sun.
I’m preparing to release my first fitness product in April. I’ve filmed videos, written programming, hired a business coach and a life coach to help me see this product through to completion. I hired a designer to make it look pretty and have solicited the help of friends and clients.
For the past two months I’ve ignored most social engagements, choosing instead to work - and for the most part that pursuit has felt good and satisfying.
Finally, I thought. Finally I will see something through to completion.
Then last weekend, as I began to close in on the final four week push - sending out more emails, advertising on Facebook, doing more Facebook live videos, I hit that familiar, frustrating but ever-present wall of self-doubt.
And I’ve been paralyzed ever since.
I don’t write this post asking for sympathy - far from it actually.
I simply write it as my authentically honest truth right now. This is my journey. This is my world. This is my reality.
This is how we get through, you and me.
We understand one another and hopefully, know that we are not alone no matter how lonely our struggles feel.
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